Purpose: Modernity consists of many conflicting aspects: It brings many empty promises, yet has resulted in new institutions that create bridges between the values and interests of millions of people who seek freedom, prosperity, quality of life, strengthened democracy and social justice. In this paper I attempt to a gain and loss account against modernity, because institutional rules are not only conducive to cooperative interactions, but to hostile interactions as well. People are not always guided by moral commitment, but rather more often driven by cold calculation or coercion. Methodology: Modernity has at least three definitions. The first definition is based on ideas that took over the imagination of the era. The second definition is based on an analysis of the behavior of people who respond to reason as well as emotion and believe that they act more rationally than their ancestors or the traditional "others". The third definition is the one closest to my heart, consisting of the use of institutional categories. Institutions offer practical ways of connecting ideas and people. The challenge for them is the result of deepening local and national interdependencies, but increasingly often also regional (e.g. European) and global. Interdependencies are the result of the scientific and technological revolution, global markets, global governance mechanisms, the emergence of new social forces and cultural conflicts (against the background of reconciling identity and differences). Conclusions: The most important task is to identify the mechanisms of complex systems so that people know how to act under conditions of uncertainty, risk and crisis. Hence, the expectations toward institutions often exceed their abilities. Even though new institutions are being created and old ones are being fixed, we are witnessing and participating in, institutional paralysis and the decay (e.g. corruption). In this situation, it is imperative not only to improve control methods (e.g. legal), but also to resort to normative systems (values and identity) and knowledge (competence and skills). The source of this paralysis is often man himself, convinced of his own maturity and equipped with all sorts of rights, but manipulated on a scale not yet seen in the past. We are experiencing our own struggle as to what roles are closest to us, e.g. consumer, investor, or citizen? Research Implications: Modernity is an emblematic, but confusing term. Therefore, the most important task is to identify the activities of complex systems, so that people know how to act under conditions of uncertainty, risk and crisis. People - agencies must operate in structures that define the boundaries of their actions. The main task of social sciences is to identify the conditions for the construction of successful configurations of agencies and structures. Originality: Sometimes the "old" is better than the "new", but to adopt this as a principle of life would be a mistake. It is better to think that the "new" is a metamorphosis of the "old", sometimes expected, sometimes not. Based on the example of capitalism - first commercial capitalism, then industrial capitalism, and today financial capitalism - I demonstrate how the mechanisms of institutional morphogenesis work, with emphasis on structured cooperation and organized conflict. (original abstract)